Men & Women
I usually observe things around me & there has been plenty that I’ve learnt through observing. For example, I’ve seen men with their gal pals checking out other girls but hey, just a word of advise..do it too often & it would end up making your gal pal uncomfortable. Doing that will eventually make her feel like she’s inadequate. I’ve also seen women who are very confident most of the time, suddenly have moments of vulnerabilty where what they need the most is assurance from a man that yes, they’re still…(sexy, cute, lovable, funny, etc..etc) hey, I go thru that phase a lot so I understand. But yeah, sometimes I think men need to just be a bit more ’sensitive’ about the small things.
But this also applies to the girls. Men have their own insecurities too. The ones I hear about are usually related to the size of their packages, how they fear no one will like them, how other men judge them based on the type of girls they go for. These are just a couple of the things I get told.
So what I’m saying is that women need to do their part too. Assure them. Don’t do the things you don’t want them to do cos one day, what you said were ok then might come back & bite you back hard in the ass. Just be yourself & hopefully the men find it enough cos hey, if they don’t…you’re screwed.
